Do You Mind?
Today I’m writing the post I need to read, and more importantly, believe.
As we reach the end of year, and look back over the last twelve months, it’s natural to evaluate one’s progress. Or, perhaps, lack of progress.
I’ve worked on two novels this year. Despite my efforts, they both continue to be messy, untamed, flawed, frustrating, etc. etc. etc. It’s done a number on my confidence. It’s quite possible I don’t know how to fix them…
That word is fundamental to the psychology of growth. Carol Dweck, PhD, psychologist and professor at Standford explains the differences between a “Fixed Mindset” and a “Growth Mindset” in her book, MINDSET: THE NEW PSYCHOLOGY OF SUCCESS.
A FIXED MINDSET assumes I am who I am. There’s a defeatist attitude inherent to this kind of thinking. The surprising thing is the limits set once a certain level of success has been achieved. This kind of thinking leads to a desire to want to look smart. After all, if we did it (wrote and published a novel, for example) once, certainly we can do it again – more easily!
In comparison, a GROWTH MINDSET assumes I can do better – this kind of thinking leads to a desire to learn.
A growth mindset embraces challenges, while a fixed one avoids them. When obstacles appear, a person with a fixed mindset is likely to give up while someone with a growth mindset will persist. This growth mindset sees effort and hard work as the path to mastery, while a fixed mindset may perceive it as pointless. Criticism prompts learning for a growth mindset while a fixed mindset is more likely to ignore feedback. People with a fixed mindset will see the success of peers as a threat, while a growth mindset sees these instances as inspiring and motivating.
Do you need a mindset-reset as much as I do? Let’s try these ideas… And please, share any tips you may have as well!
REVISING ONE’S MINDSET FOR REVISION
- Defeat doubt with YET.
- I can’t finish my novel…YET
- My novel isn’t working…YET
- I’m not smart enough to be a writer…YET
- Avoid trap of thinking never-always-every
- We can grow and change
- Each new work is an opportunity for surprise
- Writing is an organic process, never static
- Own the fear of failure
- Working is progress, regardless of output
- Struggle is a sign of growth
- Failure is proof of facing a challenge
- Visualize each step of growth
- Visualize big picture achievement – allow yourself to feel the success
- Break the process down into small, doable steps – visualize those, too
- (Remember to celebrate those steps)
- Journal for reflection
- Keep track of process
- Expect ups and downs
- Revise goals and expectations
- Remember to play
- Find joy in the process, complete with struggle
- Explore along the way
- Even wrong paths can offer moments of beauty and inspiration
Here’s to a growth minded 2017 and onward!